When Paths Cross....

You ever meet someone that is quite an amazing individual and you have a gut feeling this person will be important in your life, but not sure how?

Good. I’m glad I’m not the only one (hopefully).

I had such an experience recently. I was on a date and I thought the guy was cute, silly, and incredibly intelligent. I was being a tad reserved because I wasn’t quite sure how present myself (possibly may have been a tad dumbstruck at how cute this guys is or I was super guarded, who knows?). We walk around and talk about business and our work lives and such. In the end, he didn’t feel anything, but greatly felt the connect of a strong friendship.

Gut punch.

This was a guy that took initiative, reached out first, asked ME to dinner. Maybe I’m so guarded and jaded because I’m usually the one that has to reach out to people. It was refreshing. Regardless, I drove back home and processed a ton and realized that perhaps he was right. Not only that, I realized that he had shown me a mirror of myself and helped me to see a few things about myself that I need to work through. I suppose he’s already doing a great job as a new friend. The guy’s absolutely amazing. He's fantastic. And while the evening didn’t end the way I thought it might, it was still a win for both of us. I gained such a great ally and advocate for me. I’m thankful, and that’s so hard to admit.

I struggle a lot with having others advocate on my behalf (For all you enneagram nerds, I’m a 2 through and through). I’m always out there trying to advocate for others and help as many as I can, so it’s super hard for me to accept an advocate. Hell, I rarely consider it.

So for me to be this thankful is challenging to admit, but also liberating. I’m so glad I have this advocate. It’s ok to admit that we cannot do this alone. It’s ok to have others in your corner. Thank you friend.

I’m so glad our paths have crossed. I’m glad my journey has become a part of your life too.

Here’s to many more miles ahead!